Thursday, October 29, 2009

Oral Sex Tips For Couples


Oral sex is the most ecstatic way to pleasure your partner. You can give the euphoria like pleasure to your partner with the oral sex. It is one of the forms of the sex that is meant to enjoy the sex without intercourse session. Oral sex is one of the most intimate sex acts. If you can do this with your partner then you have surely developed a very good level of understanding with your partner. When a man gives oral to his ladylove it is called as cunnilingus and when a woman does it for man it is called as fellatio. Oral sex is still a subject of taboo and many people find dirty, but I am sure once you do it you will love it and will always get indulged in the oral sex. Here, are some oral sex tips for couples that will help them to shed their ambitions and get involved in the sexual activity with a prime aim as a pleasure to the partner.

1. The first tips for oral sex is to get comfortable with each other, unless you are comfortable with each other you will not be able to enjoy the oral sex to its fullest. At first you will even feel little awkward to go down and touch that part with mouth, but once you shed that embarrassment feeling you would feel the pleasure of oral sex and you would really like it.

2. Oral sex involves stimulation of the sex organs with the mouth and tongue. So, it is must that you maintain the hygiene of the intimate parts to it best. For this you need to take a bath before the sexual activity and clean the intimate parts thoroughly. You can even take a bath together so that you both can clean body parts of your partner that you are going to take in mouth. Remember that if you intimate parts or not clean then would be the biggest turn off for your partner.

3. Don’t start directly by moving your mouth downwards. First start with a passionate kiss, then touch each and every part of your partners body with your mouth. Men can certainly take the nipples in their mouth because women enjoy the oral stimulation of the breasts. Slowly move your head towards her intimate parts and then start the real game of passion.

4. Start with the fingers. Yes, it is always better to start the oral sex with your fingers. Specifically men should always use their fingers to insert inside the female reproductive organ before they select to stimulate it with mouth. This helps you to get the idea where to stimulate. You can locate her clitoris by your fingers and then touch it with your tongue will give her the immense pleasure.

5. Go slow, if you are taken his manhood in mouth then please go slow don’t put any more pressure on it otherwise he may end up very soon and in your mouth itself and that may be the problem if you have decided not to swallow. But, I would advice that there is no harm in swallowing his semen because they are nutritional. So, proceed slowly and try to use your tongue to revolve around the hood of his penis. For men they should also proceed slowly by just moving their tongue first around the external lips of vagina and then they should proceed to the inner part.

6. Getting in “69” position is supposed to be the best part of the oral sex. It is the position when men give cunnilingus to women and she gives fellatio him, both at the same time. For this position men need to lie on bed and women on him upside down. Both should start the oral sex simultaneously. The feeling that you enjoy through the 69 position is great and you will never forget when you first time did it.

So, if you have still not tried the oral sex, then you are surely missing the real fun of sex. Yes, it is bit awkward first time, but once you do it then you will like it and you both will enjoy the great fun without the intercourse.